The Prophet

On Joy and Sorrow

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Then a woman said, Speak to us of Joy and Sorrow.

And he answered:

Your joy is your sorrow unmasked.

And the selfsame well from which your laughter rises was oftentimes filled with your tears.

And how else can it be?

The deeper that sorrow carves into your being, the more joy you can contain.

Your joy is your sorrow unmasked.

Is not the cup that holds your wine the very cup that was burned in the potter’s oven?

And is not the lute that soothes your spirit, the very wood that was hollowed with knives?

When you are joyous, look deep into your heart and you shall find it is only that which has given you sorrow that is giving you joy.

When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight.

Some of you say, “Joy is greater than sorrow,” and others say, “Nay, sorrow is the greater.”

But I say unto you, they are inseparable.

Together they come, and when one sits alone with you at your board, remember that the other is asleep upon your bed.

Verily you are suspended like scales between your sorrow and your joy.

Only when you are empty are you at standstill and balanced.

When the treasure-keeper lifts you to weigh his gold and his silver, needs must your joy or your sorrow rise or fall.

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In brief

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Joy and sorrow rise from one source. They are a single life showing two faces. Gibran teaches that the well from which laughter springs was first filled with tears, and that sorrow, by carving deeper into the self, widens the space joy can fill. The cup was fired in the potter's oven and the lute was hollowed with knives, and in the same way what delights us is what once wounded us, and what we weep for is what was once our delight. Gibran then answers those who quarrel over which is greater by naming the two inseparable. When one sits at the table, the other sleeps upon the bed. The soul hangs like scales between them, still only when empty, and it must rise or fall whenever life lifts it to be weighed.

Key ideas

  • Joy is sorrow unmasked, and both are drawn from the same inner well.
  • Sorrow hollows out the being, and that hollowing becomes the measure of the joy it can hold.
  • Looked into deeply, what gives joy is what once gave sorrow, and grief mourns what was once delight.
  • Joy and sorrow are inseparable companions, so the presence of one means the other is near.
  • The soul is balanced like scales between them and stands still only when it is empty.

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