The Prophet

On Children

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And a woman who held a babe against her bosom said, Speak to us of Children.

And he said:

Your children are not your children.

They are the sons and daughters of Life’s longing for itself.

They come through you but not from you,

And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.

You may give them your love but not your thoughts,

For they have their own thoughts.

You may house their bodies but not their souls,

For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.

You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth.

You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you.

For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.

You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth.

The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite, and He bends you with His might that His arrows may go swift and far.

Let your bending in the Archer’s hand be for gladness;

For even as he loves the arrow that flies, so He loves also the bow that is stable.

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In brief

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Children are not possessions of their parents. They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself, and they pass through the parent without coming from the parent. Gibran sets out what a parent may give and what lies beyond giving. Love may be given but not thoughts. The body may be housed but not the soul, for the soul already dwells in a tomorrow the parent cannot enter, not even in dreams. Life moves forward and never returns to yesterday, so the elder may strive to be like the young but must not shape them into a copy of himself. The teaching closes on the image of the Archer. Parents are the bow, children the living arrows, and the Archer bends the bow toward a mark on the path of the infinite. The bending is to be borne with gladness, because the Archer loves the stable bow as truly as the flying arrow.

Key ideas

  • Children belong to Life itself. They come through their parents, not from them.
  • A parent may give love, shelter and care, but cannot give thoughts or own the soul.
  • The soul of the child lives in a tomorrow closed to the parent. Life goes forward and does not linger with yesterday.
  • Parents are the bow and children the living arrows. The aim belongs to the Archer, who sees the mark on the path of the infinite.
  • To be bent in the Archer's hand is a gladness, for the stable bow is loved as much as the arrow that flies.

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