The Prophet

On Marriage

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Then Almitra spoke again and said, And what of Marriage master?

And he answered saying:

You were born together, and together you shall be forevermore.

You shall be together when the white wings of death scatter your days.

Aye, you shall be together even in the silent memory of God.

But let there be spaces in your togetherness,

And let the winds of the heavens dance between you.

Love one another, but make not a bond of love:

Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.

Fill each other’s cup but drink not from one cup.

Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf.

Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone,

Give your hearts, but not into each other’s keeping.

Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music.

Give your hearts, but not into each other’s keeping.

For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.

And stand together yet not too near together:

For the pillars of the temple stand apart,

And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other’s shadow.

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In brief

Marriage is a togetherness that outlasts death and rests even in the silent memory of God, yet it lives only where space is kept within it. Read the summaryHide the summary

Marriage is a togetherness that outlasts death and rests even in the silent memory of God, yet it lives only where space is kept within it. Gibran asks the wedded to let the winds of the heavens dance between them and to let love be a moving sea between the shores of their souls, never a bond. They are to fill each other's cup but not drink from one cup, and share bread but not eat from one loaf. Each remains alone in the way the strings of a lute are alone while they quiver with the same music. Hearts are given, but not into each other's keeping, for only the hand of Life can contain them. The chapter closes on the pillars of the temple, which stand apart to bear one roof, and on the oak and the cypress, which do not grow in each other's shadow.

Key ideas

  • Gibran holds that the union of two souls is eternal and reaches beyond death into the memory of God.
  • Love that becomes a bond loses its life. Love kept as a moving sea between two shores stays living.
  • Sharing is not merging: each fills the other's cup and each drinks from their own.
  • Two people make one music only while each remains a separate string.
  • Only Life can hold the heart. No partner is asked to be its keeper.
  • Like temple pillars, partners stand apart so that what they hold up together can stand.

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